Milam Funeral Home and Cremation Services

This is a shout out to one of our best friends and one-of-a-kind officiant, Ashley Milam, for doing an exceptional job marrying us last weekend.nnMy wife Arlene and I have known Ashley for several years. My mother passed away in December of 2019 and it was such a relief for me to know I could count on Ashley to take care of her in her final journey and take care us during that very difficult transition. Ashley was a steadfast friend to me, a comfort to my children who were devastated by the loss, and the kindest of souls to the rest of my family and friends. Her compassion and understanding were heartfelt and deeply needed by us during that time. Ashley knew my mother and she wanted to celebrate her life. At the service, she made sure to let everyone know what a happy, fun, loving woman my mother was, she spoke about her as if she were her own mother. Ashley told us that my mother reminded her of her own, and that they would get along great and party together in Heaven, that made me chuckle. That is Ashley’s way, to make everyone feel special and to show how she understands and identifies with what people are going through. She took care of us like family!nnLast weekend, on a much happier occasion, Arlene and I got married, and of course, it was Ashley who officiated our wedding ceremony. When we asked her months ago to marry us, Ashley could not have been more excited, and we were very glad because we did not want anyone else. We knew Ashley would make our day special just by being there next to us helping us say our vows. Ashley has a way of reaching out to touch people’s hearts which is unique, engaging, and genuine. She can make people laugh and make them cry with just a couple of words. Her unrehearsed comments are refreshing, and inspire confidence. We were so happy but also a little nervous, but knowing Ashley was there, we felt calm because no matter what, we knew she had our back. For Arlene and I it was personal because Ashley is like a sister to us, but this would have been no different if she had not known the couple as Ashley has a way to make people feel special from the moment they meet her.nnAshley was born with many gifts, but the gift of caring, giving and loving are her strongest ones. She gives you all of her heart during your most important life events and she is there for you lending you her unwavering hand and support. If you are ever looking for someone to officiate a meaningful transition in your life, look no further, Ashley Milam is who you want.

When my brother in law died unexpectedly at 22 years of age none of us were prepared to handle his death, yet alone plan a funeral. Milam made the process as easy and painless as possible. They showed our family extreme kindness, empathy, and professionalism. They worked with us to create an event filled with personal touches, that honored his life in a beautiful way. While the experience was incredibly hard for all of, Milam really helped in making it all a bit easier for us which I will forever be grateful for.

My family has been doing business with the Milam family for 20+ years, they are the most caring, supportive and simply put they are family. From our parents, spouse and recently my child I could not have gone through these challenging times without them. Mickey and Ashley are the very best.

This is a promise to you, I will support your family through their grief in your honor. This is the sacred space we hold for the families we serve.n-William Heath (Funeral Director in Training)

Milam Funeral Home is wonderful to work with. They took care of both of my parents’ and my in-laws’ arrangements. They are caring, loving and helpful during difficult times.